Taking that control back!

Hi lovers, it’s been a while since I wrote a non-music related post. So you are lucky because today’s the day for some real talk.

Feeling feelings is life. Be grateful you can feel feelings, not everybody can. Celebrate every little minutiae of emotion because it’s beautiful. You are alive and feeling feelings! Fuck yes. YOLO.

There is so much strength in weakness. There is so much going on inside and you should never be afraid to show the outside world that vulnerability, that rawness and that beauty. 

Your surroundings are direct reflections of you. Messy house, messy mind. 

Be upset, grieve, be angry and realise that at the end you can get over it and take that fucking control back. You cannot control anybody or anything – but you know what you can control? Yourself! That is the beauty!

I say it once and always: Actions speak louder than words. Don’t be lured by the words, be lured by the work he does for you.

If you know what you want, you just have to find someone who wants that too. Finding someone is not the challenge, finding someone fitting is.

Don’t adapt your hopes and dreams to anybody, adapt them to you!

It’s all fun and games until someone gets hurt so I plead with you - be real! Confrontation is always the hardest, but constant harmony is for pussies anyway.

Speak your mind. Respectfully.

Finally like Shia La Boeuf says: Just fucking do it!

I love you lovers! Keep on being good people! X